chocolate, shoe shopping, wine, trashy soap operas, dolly parton, online flirting........
So which one is anymore harmful than another? You want my opinion? none.
they are all good for your soul, as long as you dont binge on the chocolate, max the credit card on the shoes, get drunk every night, do nothing but lounge on the sofa in front of TV, Dont sing Dolly at 3am and do not do anything to hurt another with the cheeky chatting.
And me? well I don't drink wine (very often!) but the rest I do indulge in, some more than others - and I enjoy them all!